Where pleasure is radical, sex ed is actually helpful, and you never have to earn your right to feel f*cking good.
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I’m a Certified Sex Therapist, neuro-inclusive sex educator, and the founder of Untamed Ember. My jam? Helping folks unlearn shame, reclaim their pleasure, and get way more honest about what turns them on—emotionally, physically, spiritually… and yes, sexually.
I work with all kinds of beautiful humans—neurodivergent brains, kinky babes, recovering people-pleasers, and everyone who’s ever felt too much or not enough in the bedroom or beyond.
I’m here to help you remember: You’re not broken. Your sexuality isn’t a problem. And pleasure? It’s your birthright.
Untamed Ember is a community, a podcast, a resource library, and a permission slip.
Here, we don’t just talk about pleasure—we unlearn the shame that’s been holding you back from actually feeling it.
Whether you’re neurodivergent, kinky, curious, touch-averse, recovering from performative sex ed, or just here because your therapist ghosted you—you’re in the right place.
Join a private, supportive, spicy-as-hell membership space where we talk real intimacy, stretch our pleasure capacity, and show up without masking.
Weekly themes, reflection prompts, exclusive worksheets, Q&A extras, and the kind of community group chat your group texts could never.
Let’s be honest: Most self-help books are either dry or way too vague.
These eBooks are short, spicy, and designed to get you thinking differently about pleasure, power, and what you were taught to believe about your body. Each book has lots of try this at home exercises too, for you hands-on learners!
Every week, we tackle sex, shame, trauma, relationships, pleasure, neuro-inclusion, nervous system stuff, and those weird but very real moments you’ve never heard anyone else say out loud.
You’ve been told to be smaller, quieter, softer, less.
To earn pleasure. To wait for permission.
Not anymore.
Untamed Ember is here to help you stretch into what’s actually true:
You’re allowed to feel good. You’re allowed to want more. You’re allowed to take up space doing it.
